> You don't really know that having waited is why you can't have kids.
We're pretty certain of the causes of our infertility and they are related to a specific degenerative condition. It's true we got married too late to start with, which itself was the product of overly casual attitudes; but this is not the purpose of my comment.
The purpose of my post is as a PSA for readers who see this thread and might need to be informed that being undecided in your early 30's is very quickly too late (unless you are male and plan to marry someone much younger). Fertility declines with age, very rapidly, particularly for females. The assisted fertility system is by no means a guaranteed workaround for this, and is in fact an extremely expensive and frustrating system to deal with no matter the outcome.
We're pretty certain of the causes of our infertility and they are related to a specific degenerative condition. It's true we got married too late to start with, which itself was the product of overly casual attitudes; but this is not the purpose of my comment.
The purpose of my post is as a PSA for readers who see this thread and might need to be informed that being undecided in your early 30's is very quickly too late (unless you are male and plan to marry someone much younger). Fertility declines with age, very rapidly, particularly for females. The assisted fertility system is by no means a guaranteed workaround for this, and is in fact an extremely expensive and frustrating system to deal with no matter the outcome.