Hopefully this read will clear some stuff up. You need to lose the victim complex.
LOL... based on that alone, I don't think I'm going to waste any of my time on the link you posted. Pointing out that both sexes have their own set of challenges, and refusing to toe the "women are good, men are bad" line is hardly having a "victim complex."
Oh sure, all sexes have their challenges. However, the particular case you bring up has been thoroughly debunked time and time again. It is annoyingly pervasive.
http://captainawkward.com/2012/08/11/the-c-word/
Hopefully this read will clear some stuff up. You need to lose the victim complex.