Voluntary commitment is self-coercion. All discipline is. The trick is, it's worth it. But some people are so allergic to external and internal control that they enter a never-ending self-destructive spiral of "personal freedom at any cost".
> some people are so allergic to external and internal control that they enter a never-ending self-destructive spiral of "personal freedom at any cost"
The sort of people you describe have no effect on the number of divorces, because they're not getting married in the first place.
