Well done for the weight loss. Also funny, I'm quite overweight (a bit lighter than your current weight) and one of the reason I want to get back in shape is because my flirting experience has been dire and non-existent. To be fair, I am not completely in favour of body positivity [1], I wouldn't date myself at this weight, so it's also a me problem.

I guess it's all relative :-)

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1: In my opinion, accept your body and its flaws, but obesity is not to be celebrated. It is a metabolic disease.