Anything using = for a relation that is not symmetric is cursed IMO. More generally, any relation using a symbol that is visually vertically symmetric should be symmetric.
Naively, one would assume that that implies O( f(n) ) - O(n) = O(n^2), which is not correct. However, O( f(n) ) = O(n^2) + O(n) implies O( f(n) ) = O(n^2), which would have been obvious if proper notation had been used.
Jokes aside, in my college we would write something like:
O( f(n) ) = O(n^2) + O(n)