Let's say you are in a group of friends who always buy peanuts to snack on during group events. And because they are all into peanuts they don't consider buying anything else. Now one day its your turn to buy snacks. You don't like peanuts but are a cashew fan. To show your friend how you have been excluded you decide to buy only cashews even though you know they all want peanuts. Do you think this is the best way to encourage snack diversity or will it just discourage people from letting you buy the snacks?