as someone who just yesterday was working around what seemed to be a Matrix netsplit on our office/community server (coworkers saw different things on mobile vs desktop vs other servers), i feel like you're glamourizing Matrix. We're still hosting it and committed to it for work,
but Matrix servers have been so finicky for years (with improvements)
this simply shouldn’t happen; it’s almost unheard of for mobile vs desktop to get out of sync unless the server is super unhealthy. can you file a bug or ping in #synapse:matrix.org so we can try to help?
Signal is still the clear winner rn imho