Why? If they decide to share their personal story online, at the very least they should expect to get replies from people who may relate to it and are willing to share their own experiences for what they're worth.
If they get offended by that advice, the issue is on them, not me.
Also, ironically enough, your comment is actually the unsolicited advice in the thread...
I guess you're right, both comments are, since nobody asked for advice.
I chose this point to invite this discussion, but could have used one of the many others in the same vein as well. What is a good reaction to someone stating their plight but not actually asking for help?
I equate someone stating their plight with asking for advice. Particularly the following
> I don't really have a good handle on what changed, or how to get back into my old sleep cycle. I just know it's annoying as hell.
In my mind, the only point in saying that is for others to empathize and share their best ideas so that OP can have "a better handle" on things. I think it's only human to respond as I did.
I do think we live in an age where people are sensitive over their interpersonal boundaries to a fault. No man is an island, and people will always give unsolicited advice—the listener can simply just choose to ignore it in which case nobody is really worse off.
Advice is almost invariably provided "as is" and with a suggested grain of salt. I don't see how it's offensive, almost by definition, as there's a distinction between being judgmental of someone and genuinely trying to help.
And for what it's worth, I don't even get offended if people judge me and don't think others should either. It's part of what defines life in a society and judging / peer pressure has a net positive effect lest we remain barbarians.
If they get offended by that advice, the issue is on them, not me.
Also, ironically enough, your comment is actually the unsolicited advice in the thread...