You answered your own question. It's not that people don't think you're valued, it's that the value you are getting commensurate with pay levels is unsustainable in the region. When the tide goes down, the first boats to flounder are the ones on high ground. I hope we can also see an unwinding of the ridiculous cost of living that is part of the rationale behind unsustainable wage growth. These things go hand in hand.
>> I hope we can also see an unwinding of the ridiculous cost of living that is part of the rationale behind unsustainable wage growth.
From your mouth to god's ear. The ridiculous cost of living is what made me reconsider the Bay Area (South Bay) after 5 years there.
My wife and I are very financially conservative. We pay cash to own assets - car, house etc. That just wasn't possible out there. And I couldn't imagine shelling out >$1M (not that I have it) in cash to own a mediocre house that would be worth 5 times less almost anywhere else.