well confidence in one's decisions is something many do not have so they start rationalizing after the fact; sometimes just to themselves! Then it becomes a situation where rationalizations never seem to have an end, there is always one more, because they are not sure in themselves.
we all have these acquaintances who must justify every little thing after they have done it because they lack confidence in themselves. Learning to be honest with yourself is the first step in a long line of personality traits that are beneficial for yourself and those around you.
so if you want to try weed, just say you do. If you want to buy that car and you have the means to do so and you know you can afford it, then just admit that you wanted it.
we all have these acquaintances who must justify every little thing after they have done it because they lack confidence in themselves. Learning to be honest with yourself is the first step in a long line of personality traits that are beneficial for yourself and those around you.
so if you want to try weed, just say you do. If you want to buy that car and you have the means to do so and you know you can afford it, then just admit that you wanted it.