Sounds like you have a great life and great network of people around you so maybe telling someone what they love is a waste of life is probably not a good use of your life.
Maybe realize that some people struggle to find happiness and will constantly be struggling. Not everybody can have a family. Not everyone can find a job after school. Not everything is easy.
If I was out of work I would be leaning on my friends and family for moral and even practical support. Doing nothing but work is a waste of a life.