I don't know details on stock options, but for RSUs, my understanding is that it works like this: your signing bonus and part of yearly perf bonus is in equity. Signing bonus matures in four years, incrementally. 25% vests at the end of 1st year, the rest vests incrementally by month. Perf bonus vests in 1 yr. Once a RSU vests, it's yours. If you leave the company before a RSU vests, you lose it.
At IPO, RSUs get converted into stocks, however, there's a restriction that you can't sell them for 1 year from the IPO date. Tax obligation is handled by subtracting a portion of the units, rather than by paying out-of-pocket.
And how the "bloat" added by adding WebKit specific hacks to jQuery is just 3 half-lines of code, I think it would be safe to assume that if Opera was as big as WebKit is jQuery would also need a lot of hacks for it.